Moving Forward...

I'm neither a good adviser nor model for this... but I think the most effective way to recover is through ACCEPTANCE & due TIME. You need to accept first the situation, and I know this is very difficult thing to do and takes a lot of courage. There are no rules or procedures when it comes to accepting things. For me, acceptance is when you no longer longing for the memories of that person, the day passed when you do the things you usually do without trying yourself to be happy and lastly when you tell yourself honestly that you’re single. After this, TIME comes along. You need time to be able to heal the pain; there are no deadlines or timeframe. You just need to spend more time with yourself. And you know you are ready when you heard his/her name from other people without feeling anything and you can truthfully smile back to them J